{"id":38491,"date":"2023-10-06T13:46:14","date_gmt":"2023-10-06T13:46:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/?p=38491"},"modified":"2023-10-06T13:46:15","modified_gmt":"2023-10-06T13:46:15","slug":"for-men-if-you-are-having-sex-with-a-first-timer-this-is-what-she-wants-you-to-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/2023\/10\/06\/for-men-if-you-are-having-sex-with-a-first-timer-this-is-what-she-wants-you-to-do\/","title":{"rendered":"For Men: If You Are Having Sex With A First-Timer This Is What She Wants You To Do"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If it\u2019s her first time, you may want to perform in a way that will leave a lasting impression on her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Something that will make her think of you for a long time, but in your attempt to leave such an impression, you may end up hurting her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first 3 or 4 sex experiences for some women are not as pleasant as they are for men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So if she tells you, it\u2019s her first time, here are some tips you need to follow so you don\u2019t make it unbearable for her;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Be patient<\/strong>; the first-time penetration can be painful for some women, even if she\u2019s wet. You\u2019d have to take your time and approach her gently to make it easier for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Also, even after you\u2019ve successfully completed the first round it doesn\u2019t mean that you can rush through the second round; you still have to be patient until she gives you permission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Get lubricants<\/strong>; While women naturally produce lubrication, it\u2019s a good idea to get extra lubricant on hand if you are having sex with a first-timer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is because when penetration gets tough, she can dry up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Though she may want it, she may be experiencing dryness due to several factors, and lubrication might help ease things up for both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Be gentle<\/strong>; do it slowly and pick up the pace as time goes on. She\u2019s still learning how she likes it and sex can\u2019t be enjoyed when only one party likes how it\u2019s going.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Be mindful of her reaction<\/strong>; continuously monitor her reactions during intercourse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If she appears to be in pain or discomfort, stop immediately and ask if everything is okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s essential to prioritize her well-being and ensure that she feels safe and cared for throughout the experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Aftercare<\/strong>: After sexual activity, offer emotional support and reassurance. Talk to her about her experience, ensuring she feels heard and valued.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Be prepared to provide comfort and understanding if she has any concerns or emotional reactions afterwards.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If it\u2019s her first time, you may want to perform in a way that will leave a lasting impression on her. Something that will make her think of you for a long time, but in your attempt to leave such an impression, you may end up hurting her. The first 3 or 4 sex experiences [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":38492,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_post_source_name":"","_post_source_url":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[49],"tags":[8660,12309,11973,9712,7584,5320],"class_list":["post-38491","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-style","tag-essential","tag-men","tag-one","tag-reassurance","tag-sex","tag-women"],"blocksy_meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38491","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38491"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38491\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38493,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38491\/revisions\/38493"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38492"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38491"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38491"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsemgh.com\/api-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38491"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}